Thursday, October 30, 2003

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"strength is not measured by how well you hold back your tears..
it's measured by the tears u shed when no one's looking."

do u think it's true?

sometimes i think it is true. being able to hold back ur tears jus implies veri gd self control.. n control over ur lacrinal glands. but when no one's looking.. u dun haf to pretend to be strong anymore. that's when ur true strength is shown.. to urself.

den again.. does an aching heart mean that u are weak? do tears symbolise weakness? (that's a stereotype isn't it? like how a guy is considered a sissy if he cries.) is a person who doesn't cry at all stronger than a person who cries? or is strength measured by something else..

i tot maybe strength is measured by how u cope.. how u carry on with life no matter wat u face. but tt can be resignation as well. u dun haf a choice.. life goes on whether or not u like it. coming to terms with ur life earlier than another person doesn't exactly make u stronger.. it jus means u've been enlightened earlier.

so how is strength defined exactly? wat kind of person is a strong person? someone who doesn't feel? someone who doesn't cry? or is strength non-existent in the first place? maybe strength is jus a conception that man made up. maybe at the end of the day, no one is strong. cos wat we have.. and wat we are.. are all provided by God.

l'avance at 4:46 PM

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