do you want something because you needed it? or do you need something because you wanted it?
do you fall for someone because you're meant to be together? or are you meant to be together because you've fallen for the person?
do you start feeling something because you're used to being nice to someone? or are you nice to that someone because you've started feeling something?
why do i get the feeling that i've been watching too many 偶像剧?
p/s: if u were a singer having a concert-cum-holiday at a resort, would you choose to relax and have your holiday before or after the concert?