i've come to believe that if you have to tell yourself that you're not doing anything wrong.. you're probably doing something wrong. it's reasonable enough to think that, no? i think so anyway. or rather.. i have yet to find a counter example for that.
but lately i'm starting to reconsider that. most of the time when you tell yourself you're not doing anything wrong.. whatever you're doing is being done because your heart is telling you to do it.. and you're telling your mind that you're not doing anything wrong. and the heart is usually wrong anyway. BUT.. what if it's the other way round? what if you're doing something that your head is telling you to do.. and you're telling your heart that you're not doing anything wrong because your heart is fighting against that decision? that'll be a case of not doing anything wrong even though you're telling youself that. isn't it?
or maybe we can just simplify it and say, the heart is usually always wrong. ha.